So aaj ham baat karne waale hain india me
Arranged marriage is scary what if in hindi
iska matlab ye hai ki aaj ke time pe arrange marriages are totally scary for young generation.
Not just men but also a woman !
So why this things are happening?
In my opinion this are all about trust issues!
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Baat jab arrange marriage ki aati hai to usme aap kitni baar ladki se milte ho 3-4 baar ya fir jyada se jyada aap kuchh time tak call pr baat karte ho isse jyada or soche to ek saal tak aap use jaanne ki koshish karte ho jiske sath aap apne agle 20-30 saal jine ka soch rahe ho to kya apko lagta hai ki itna time kaafi hoga!
Mujhe to nahin lagta ki me kisi ko bhi itni jaldi samajh sakta hun.
Isme sabse badi dikkat ye hai ki koi bhi chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki apni puri actually identity chhupa kar 1-2 saal nikal sakta hai or apko pata bhi nahi chalega.
Sabse badi problem tab aayegi jab aapki shadi ho jaye or aapko us insan ka past baad me pata chale or aap kuchh kar hi na pao so what if ?
Chalo ek example leke samajhte hain !
Maan lo aap ki arrange marriage hui or pehle kuchb mahine to sab kuchh achha chal raha tha lekin baad me apko pata chala ye ladki to abhi bhi apne purane bf se milti hai or jo chije apke sath ho rahi hai wo hi same chij uske sath bhi kar rahi hai or ab aap ye soch rahe ho ki ab kya Karen or aap ne shaadi kar li hai or kaafi wakt bhi ho gaya hai, ab aap sirf apne parents ko blame kar sakte ho ki dekho aapki bahu kya kar rahi hai pr wo bhi kya karenge fir apko hi jhelna hoga or aap kuchh kar bhi nahin paoge.
Sirf har baar ladki hi buri ho ye jaruri nahin hai ladke ke liye bhi same yahi chij laagu hoti hai.
Ek or example dekhe to..
Ek ladke ki shaadi thi 4-5 ghane hi bache the or usi shaadi mein usne apni ek ex ko bhi bulaya tha ab aap ye suno ki us ladke ne kya kiya ki usne apni ex ke sath wo sab kiya jo use nahin karna chahiye tha kyonki wo ek commited relation me tha or uski shaadi hone me sirf kuchh hi ghante bache the or usne apni ex ke sath sex kiya ab aap yaha mein sirf ladke ko hi bura nahin bata raha yaha par wo jo uski ex hai wo to ghatiya hai hi lekin wo jo men hai wo bhi kitna weird hai ye pata chal raha hai ab yaha trust jaisi koi chij hai hi nahin uski or dusre person ke bich mein, aise me aap ye pata laga sakte ho hi ki aaj ki generation kitni fucked up ho chuki hai or ye bilkul bhi achhi baat nahin hai.
Naa to aaj ke time pr ek men trust worthy hai or na hi women to agar aap arrange marriage karte ho to dono me se jo achha insan hai use hi sabkuchh bhugtna padega haa lekin agar dono hi achhe hain to sahi hai lekin aisi bahot bahot hi rare case me ye chij hogi.
Waise to nahin hi hogi pr kabhi kabhi exception bhi matter karte hain.
Achhi baat hai agar ye chij ho! (Arranged marriage is scary what if in hindi 2025)
Aaj ke time pe ajahn 50 percent se jayada young generation hook-up culture me fasi hai wahin kuchh log in sabse bahar hai jinhe ye sab face karna hoga to aaj ke time me to bilkul recommend nahin karunga ki aap agar kisi ko thik se jaante naa ho to ek relationship me aao..
Kyonki jabardasti koi option hi nahin tha is liye pyaar karne se behtar hai aap akele reh lo pr agar aap ke paas wakt hai agar aap abhi apni 20s ki time me ho to me to yahi kahunga ki aap Explore karo nayin females ko jaise wo naye naye man’s ko test karti hai tumhe bhi ye sikhna hoga warna tum bhi baaki logon ki tarah hi isi me fas kar reh jaaoge..
Aaj ke time me agar relation me trust ki kami hai to ye to obvious hai ki wo relationship jyada chalegi hi nahi jo sirf needs ke base pr tiki ho jisme pyar ho hi nahin.
Jaise agar me dating site ki baat karun to wahan aap ko jaise ladki chahiye ya jaisa ladka chahiye waise mil jayega or apki needs k according match aa bhi jayega pr isme pyaar kaha hoga ye bhi matter karta hai ye pura jo scenario hai wo sirf needs ke base pr hi chalega.
Sach kahun to mujhe khud is chij se dar lagta hai ki jis insaan ko aap thik se jaante hi nahin ho uske sath apko puri jindagi nikalni pade or apke paas or koi option hi na ho!
I hope you understand that..
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